Stephen Lawrence’s father Neville: I forgive my son’s killers



The father of murdered teenager Stephen Lawrence says he has forgiven his son’s killers, nearly 25 years after the 18-year-old was stabbed to death in a brutal racist attack.

Neville Lawrence, 76, said the decision was the hardest he has ever made, and that he struggles to put into words the devastation caused to his family when his son was killed.

Stephen was murdered by a gang of racists in Eltham, south-east London, on April 22, 1993.

His father said: “The fact that I had to lose my first child has been devastating.

“I can’t begin to explain the pain and the anguish me and my family have suffered over the past 25 years.”

Neville Lawrence, father of Stephen Lawrence (PA)

He said the decision to forgive Stephen’s killers was “the hardest I will ever make in my lifetime”, but that he has embraced Christian faith.

“It was one of the hardest things for me to say to myself, ‘I forgive you for the murder of my son’,” Dr Lawrence said, adding: “maybe if I had done it earlier it would have been better for me as well”.

He plans to spend the 25th anniversary of his son’s death in church.

Two of the group of up to six thugs who attacked the teenager and his friend Duwayne Brooks, simply because they were black, have been convicted of murder, but the rest have evaded justice.

David Norris (left) and Gary Dobson (right) (CPS/PA Wire)

David Norris and Gary Dobson are both serving life sentences, while three other men who have consistently been named as suspects but never convicted are Jamie Acourt, 41, from Bexley; his brother Neil Acourt, 42, who uses his mother’s maiden name Stuart, and Luke Knight, 41, both from Eltham.

The initial investigation into Stephen’s death was hampered by incompetence, racism and alleged corruption.

A key moment was when Mr Lawrence and his ex-wife Doreen met Nelson Mandela two weeks after Stephen died.

“When I met him for the first time I was so inspired by his persona and the way he talked to people,” Mr Lawrence said.

“He made it clear to us that in his country it was something that they go through every day, but never in his wildest dreams did he think that something like that would happen in a place like Britain.”

Stephen Lawrence was stabbed to death aged 18

London has seen a surge in violent crime in recent months, with nearly 60 murders in the capital so far this year.

Mr Lawrence, who speaks at schools and universities to spell out the dire consequences of carrying a weapon, said: “Right now with the violence, and the knife crime violence, it is even more urgent that I talk to these youngsters and explain to them the pain and the suffering they inflict on families.

“It is a life sentence and something that will never be served. I’ve been serving a life sentence for the last 25 years and I will go on serving that until the day I die.”

He believes if young people are left with nothing to do they will get involved in activities that are “devastating” to the community in which they live.

Mr Lawrence and his former wife, who is now Baroness Lawrence, have campaigned for more than two decades to get justice for their son

Former Met Police commissioner Bernard Hogan-Howe with Doreen Lawrence (Carl Court/Getty Images))

The botched case led to a major public inquiry and eventually a change in the law to allow Dobson to be tried twice for murder.

Detectives have admitted their investigation is unlikely to progress without new information.

But the case remains under scrutiny with an inquiry into undercover policing examining claims that police moles infiltrated campaign groups supporting the Lawrence family.

Former plasterer and decorator Mr Lawrence believes that in death his aspiring architect son has become a “legend”.

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He said: “When these boys killed my son Stephen, they created a legend. In his death, Stephen is a legend.

“There is debate about racism, there are organisations set up to help to make people understand about racism, the police have been put under the spotlight because of Stephen’s death.”

The father-of-three and his family, who have fought with immense dignity despite scandalously poor treatment by the police, will never escape the pain of what happened.

He said: “My family, especially me, I will never be the person I was before Stephen’s death.

“Maybe sometimes people think you can just brush things aside. You can never brush this aside, this is going to live with you for the rest of your life.

“This is a life sentence that you can’t finish. The only time my life sentence will be finished is when I’m in the ground.”

Reporting by Press Association



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